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afternoondeligh4 64F
41 posts
9/9/2005 6:49 am

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3/5/2006 9:29 pm

Why is it so hard to become friends in the CHAT ROOMS


I have tried several times to start with a talk or something in the chat rooms and it seems never to make the friends with many, can someone tell me the reason, what Im doing wrong?

Scooter104 88F

9/9/2005 7:27 am

noondelight ....You are not doing anything wrong. Everyone is so engrossed in their own conversations, they miss a lot. It usually moves pretty fast. Don't take it personal. Our new neighbors often get the same treatment.

If I see you in there, I'll talk to you!


Ladynads 75F

9/9/2005 7:54 am

Scooter,
I don't think your doing anything wrong the chat rooms unless they are unusually slow are not very conducive to actually having a friendly conversation as they are so fast paced and so much going on at once, I can barely keep up and often times piss posts directed to me from others and once I lose that I'm usually just left in the background somewhere unless I just keep posting and even then sometimes I am ignored LOL


slojimfiz 82M

9/9/2005 8:50 am

You are expecting to much to soon. Don't get in a hurry and don't take the fact you are not accepted right off the bat personally.


kels00 61F

9/9/2005 10:42 am

hi there not everyone is like that If yer in the lobby and I'm there I'll chat... I chat to everyone but having said that when I first joined their were a few funnies with me just ignor them... fondest kels


Keepmeamazed 70M

9/9/2005 4:09 pm

I have only been in the chat rooms once and talked to a lady from Vegas this morning, she didn't even bother to say she was leaving. It was a friendly conversation about where we lived etc. At least I would of told the other party I had to leave. you can always e-mail me and get to know each other. Always Honesty the best policy. And Shame on the rude Dudes, and Dames that wouldn't show some respect.


Angelsara 71F

9/9/2005 7:01 pm

I am in the chat rooms quite often. Yes others do ignore new people, but when I am there I always talk to everyone. I feel we are in there to make new friends. I have friends that I talk with in chat, but I try to never leave anyone out. Try again, there are different people in chat each night.