Blog : LAST SATURDAY 'S EVENIG DATE

13110 posts
4/4/2009 2:18 pm

LAST SATURDAY 'S EVENIG DATE

I don't kiss and tell, but since I didn't kiss I can tell. This man has a higher education(I believe like in tennis, always play with someone that is better than you, it elevates your game) and has lived in this country for fifty years, so no excuse that we don't how we behave on this side this of the Pacific Ocean, well maybe things are different by the Indian Ocean, so we meet, to his benefit he was on time (seams to be a hard thing to do for some gentlemen)I had made reservations in a lovely restaurant with views across the Bay to San Diego. As I said he did show up on time, a little hard to recognize since he was waring a dirty baseball cap. Now I don't know about you, but I don't think that is a first date thing to wear for dinner. I leaned in to give a hug, the smell was pretty bad (maybe since I am a caterer and I am always sniffing to make sure the food is fresh that I buy) you know the smell, worn the same shirt 10 times with out laundering it, yes, that smell, when he smiled I could see bad oral HG, had plague on teeth surely not brushed, definitely not that day. Actually the conversation was really animated and we had lots of similar interests. After dinner I took him around the Island to show him the sites. we sat down to have a cup of coffee, that is when I told "mr highly educated" that I do not get close or intimate with anybody until I get to know them better,(if ever) that didn't seam to sink in, still trying to grab me and kiss,(Oh God, he must have octopuses in his family tree) finely I made the excuse I had a meeting in the morning. Getting to my car, "mr highly educated" leaned over and grabs my breast squeeze it and before I could even phantom what had happened he was in his car and driving off. So this man might have been a scholar but surely not a gentleman. PS. I saw today he was on the site chatting somebody else up. So girls, make sure he brushes his teeth before he meets with you.

"Truth, wisdom, love seek reasons; malice only seeks causes"
Johann Caspar Lavater

ElleForever 86F

4/4/2009 5:51 pm

Karin: Could it be that his 'education' was from the Univ of HK? (btw - that's the School of Hard Knocks, only?).

Any fella who gropes a woman is NO gentleman, not even if he's been acquainted with her for a very long time. He gets a complete VETO from me, as I'm certain he did from you, also.

He sounds much like several male-type folks I've met in real-time/real-life that I met at online dating sites, with whom I 'communicated' online for a several months before a real-life Meet & Greet.

One of them literally expected me to INSTANTLY replace his late wife, deceased 4-5 months earlier after a long illness. Only thing better than the one you had the 'meet' with was that they had taken fairly good care of their (obvious) hygiene.

Karin, next time - suggest a Meet & Greet at the Del -or- somewhere similar to that, lots of very 'nice' places nearby the Del. One of my fav places to go for a walk is across the street from the Del - even though it's changed lots over the years, Glorietta Bay still holds lot of fond memories for me. If they quickly vote 'no' for the Del, that's a Big Message, eh?

Did he say or 'infer' that he lives on the Island? I've spent many pleasant days on the Island while I lived in Southern California, and any time I had time and opportunity I visited the Island. I'm happy to say that I didn't see one male-type person who would have come eveb close to the one you've described. Soap, bathtubs and/or showers, deodorant and toothpaste aren't very considered 'luxuries' by most folks --- are they?

Oh welllllll --- it's about 'live and learn', eh?

ElleForever

karinpepita replies on 4/4/2009 6:24 pm:
We went to the new Candelas restaurant, it was newly remodeled at the Ferry Landing, food is great, I like Glorieta Inn and there is the Mexican restaurant Albertos in the lovely courtyard across from the Dell, you would think that personal HG would be a norm in this day and age, but that doesn't seam to be the case. He certainly was very knowledgeable in both music, literature, theater and had traveled enough for me to recognize the places he had been. Personally, I think that he was on the prowl, and has the notion that a woman should pay with her body if he pays for dinner.

hauler54 70M

4/4/2009 10:10 pm

too funny Karin..How close to the water were you?? You shoulda pushed him and threw him a bar of soap!!

karinpepita replies on 4/4/2009 10:20 pm:
It would have taken a mayor brush

50TallandBuilt9 70M

4/4/2009 10:45 pm

I just don't get it..Cannot understand a person like that...He must be a real creep..the kind that gives all of us guys a real bad name...For all of us men, "I apologize".
TC
Dan

karinpepita replies on 4/5/2009 9:52 am:
50, Not for you to apologize (but thanks), he was just your everyday, average, horny, dirty old geezer that has got away with it before, and certainly will again.

Robyn5 83F

4/5/2009 3:44 am

Hi karin, that sounds like a real good date!!!! I hope you learned from it

I learn everything from my downfalls. Im laughing with you, and Im glad you got home safe

karinpepita replies on 4/5/2009 10:04 am:
Hi Sweetie, beside that he was hard of hearing when it came to the word no, Mr. Pepe Le Pew was quite harmless, stinky but harmless.

RedRidingHood10 73F

3728 posts
4/5/2009 5:27 am

Karin ~~ Eewwww was the first word that came to my mind. I'm sorry he was such a creep. I'm surprised he copped a feel. Certainly it is not proper behavior for any man regardless of his origin. Gee, I can only wonder why he is single. ROFLMAO

The positive is there. Sometimes it's just hard to find.

karinpepita replies on 4/5/2009 10:11 am:
How was your weekend??? You know, you put yourself out there, and some rotten apples are going to fall from the trees. Things have to be really bad for me not to find the humor in it. Anyhow, this weekend I stayed at home and watched three movies and eat buckets of popcorn (no butter) got to keep myself slender for the next adventure.

Bruja 67F

2266 posts
4/5/2009 2:06 pm

OMG....

Just what more could a gal want but a smelly butt guy with dirty teeth that gropes you on the first date and has octopus hands. Well he might have added just a pat on the tush. ROFL.

I'm not very tall but had chato done that to me when we first met I would have decked him. I'm a fiesty Apache Spainard.

Bruja

The wealth of a soul is measured by how much it can feel; its poverty by how little. W. R. Inge

karinpepita replies on 4/5/2009 5:09 pm:
Ay carambas Apache Girl, I do the Nordic freeze stare, I didn't go to finishing school for nothing.

bijou624

4/5/2009 4:41 pm

Hi Karin: My goodness, why on earth would a man go to all the trouble of meeting someone and then look and act like such a jerk? I hope he at least paid for the dinner. I would only ever agree to going for coffee on a blind date, easier to make a quick getaway that way.

karinpepita replies on 4/5/2009 5:24 pm:
Maybe it works some times for him, we are all product of our environment, now how does it go??...Oh yes, in this case, "you can take the boy out of India, but cannot take India out of the boy" Not that I am in anyway I am implying that other people from his country are like that at all, I have had the privilege to have visited India, and found their people were absolutely respectful and very gracious their culture incredible.