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looklook 84M
4553 posts
9/30/2018 8:00 pm

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Just for a Change

A farewell note.


So, you have finally decided to leave the place where you had born and lived so long with your friends and relatives and raised your own for someone who lives across a vast ocean and a continent without caring to tell the one who adored and loved you unconditionally year after year expecting nothing from you in return!

May I take this opportunity to draw you attention to the under noted line that speaks for itself:

Quote life happens in a flash: memories are forever.' Unquote

I know that your memories are short-lived! But to many like the one mentioned at above, memories are eternal. They never fade away. They remain engraved in the hearts!! It may sometimes tear a person apart also! Your foolish one is no different. However, I know that he is strong enough to cherish your memories until to the last moment because he could never roll back time to take past memories away! It would surely make him cry in joy momentarily or would make him melancholy when it would remind him something joyous! I can assure you, however, that your memories would never be painful to him. He would truly like you to live in that small town in South Coast with the person who considers you as one in million until death do part you two. Don't play with him as you did with others causing them unbearable pains in love's name!

You may not remember your foolish one then—you may not look for him in those stars shining in the night sky far away from you!





looklook 84M
3925 posts
9/30/2018 8:39 pm

Thank you so much...


sewg1941 82F

9/30/2018 9:47 pm

I'm sorry ... I can feel your pain!


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/1/2018 2:34 am

    Quoting sewg1941:
    I'm sorry ... I can feel your pain!
Hello Sewg,
Delighted to read from you here on my blog page after such a long time! I am happy to see you back again posting blogs that make us thoughtful always! Please don't be sorry or feel pain! Our lives are like that and we have ups and downs, sorrows and happiness to bear! I am no different. Thanks again. Stay well and take care.


MrsJoe 76F
17308 posts
10/1/2018 6:49 am

Good to see you back, Look..... it's been awhile since you posted.
It's true, we have good times and bad times in life, but we just have to keep going on, don't we?


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/1/2018 7:08 am

    Quoting  :

Hi Joannita
What they say about pain is correct. They are not also wrong about suffering that is caused by the pain! In this particular case the one mentioned at above knows about both. He wants to see the lady happy under all situations! And that is the truth!
Thanks for stopping by my blog. Stay well and cheerful always!


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/1/2018 7:33 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Good to see you back, Look..... it's been awhile since you posted.
    It's true, we have good times and bad times in life, but we just have to keep going on, don't we?
MrsJoe, hi
Thanks for your encouraging post. I was busy with renovating my house. My architect daughter came from overseas and pointed out that the entire house needs repainting both interior and exterior of the two story building! The repainting of the house stands completed now! I agree with what you said about our life cycles! Life goes on when we are busy! Have a pleasant week.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
10/2/2018 3:53 am

Look, your thoughts and beliefs are so wrong. If you were in contact you would have known about it the FIRST.... But unfortunately it wasn't the case. Though the uses of several optional ways, but sadly not in use, sealed and wiped out.

Your above blog is really touchy, expressive. assuming, imaginated, but the assumption and conclusion are inexact. As sometimes loneliness forces someone to have a change of the monotonous life, a change of environment, a change in mind, a change of sight, a change in stressful and repetitive routines. All these can affect the morals and the health of one. Having a change in all those, is good for one. The person may really need it at a certain time of his/her life, depending on the reality. The reasons you've mentioned above, are just inexact. They are definitely otherwise. If you had tendered an attentive ear, you would have known better and further, but Halas!!!.

Carelessness, unconcern, negativeness, lake of interest, mean challenges, pride, intentional disregards, always have consequences, astonishment and forcibly regrets. Who's to blame then??. The unnecessary tug of war that has worn out the rope to an extent, as shown on the previous picture which you had chosen, was an unthoughtful choice but it did say a lot. Was there or is there any solution?. But the belief is, the rope would never be totally broken, as the very last string would be strong enough to hold on, as it is the pivot of that rope, so as to say. No storm, no lightning, no snow, no fire, no rust or corrosion would ever untie even the last and only string of such a rope. However, to each one his belief.

Feelings and what are encoded, stored, and retrieved when needed, still remain, even as time goes by. What went wrong, how and why, is to be analyzed. Did you enquire about the reasons of the going away?. Well, the journey will be temporarily only. Perhaps, Out Of Sight may be good in a way, it makes one feel the depth of the feelings, the miss or not, any importance or a deliverance. Perhaps happiness or just a regret. However it is, let it be. If your Farewell is an Adieu or a Final Goodbye, I thank you though. And thank you again for your above blog, Look. God bless you always and keep you well and happy.
D.....if it still is or may be not.


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looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/2/2018 10:25 am

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Look, your thoughts and beliefs are so wrong. If you were in contact you would have known about it the FIRST.... But unfortunately it wasn't the case. Though the uses of several optional ways, but sadly not in use, sealed and wiped out.

    Your above blog is really touchy, expressive. assuming, imaginated, but the assumption and conclusion are inexact. As sometimes loneliness forces someone to have a change of the monotonous life, a change of environment, a change in mind, a change of sight, a change in stressful and repetitive routines. All these can affect the morals and the health of one. Having a change in all those, is good for one. The person may really need it at a certain time of his/her life, depending on the reality. The reasons you've mentioned above, are just inexact. They are definitely otherwise. If you had tendered an attentive ear, you would have known better and further, but Halas!!!.

    Carelessness, unconcern, negativeness, lake of interest, mean challenges, pride, intentional disregards, always have consequences, astonishment and forcibly regrets. Who's to blame then??. The unnecessary tug of war that has worn out the rope to an extent, as shown on the previous picture which you had chosen, was an unthoughtful choice but it did say a lot. Was there or is there any solution?. But the belief is, the rope would never be totally broken, as the very last string would be strong enough to hold on, as it is the pivot of that rope, so as to say. No storm, no lightning, no snow, no fire, no rust or corrosion would ever untie even the last and only string of such a rope. However, to each one his belief.

    Feelings and what are encoded, stored, and retrieved when needed, still remain, even as time goes by. What went wrong, how and why, is to be analyzed. Did you enquire about the reasons of the going away?. Well, the journey will be temporarily only. Perhaps, Out Of Sight may be good in a way, it makes one feel the depth of the feelings, the miss or not, any importance or a deliverance. Perhaps happiness or just a regret. However it is, let it be. If your Farewell is an Adieu or a Final Goodbye, I thank you though. And thank you again for your above blog, Look. God bless you always and keep you well and happy.
    D.....if it still is or may be not.


    .
Beth1949, neither my thoughts nor my beliefs are wrong. The person who suffered silently years after years never lost contacts with the lady whom he loved unconditionally! Rather, the truth is other way round! His beloved lost track of him intentionally in order to avoid him. Therefore it would be a futile endeavor for me if I attempt to make response to the points raised by you in your four Para post! So I refrain myself from doing so.
Always take care of yourself Beth 1949 and continue to remain happy all the times!


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
10/3/2018 9:04 am

.Anam, as your so dear close F.Friend call you now and also signed by you. Wonder how and since when it was known so !!!. However, could say Syed but as above I was called as Berh1949, so relatively I would just say Looklook. Maybe the previous usual sobriquets or nicknames are prohibited now, permissible only for favorite others and you as Anam!!. Be it then, no problem Looklook.

Thanks anyhow for your above response. One true thing is that you have never been avoided and it's entirely your deeds, as you quite know also. Maybe the contrary is applied to only your favorite ones. However, let it be. It isn't my complain really, you are so a free person for that and whatever pleases or delights you as well. But I know you cannot deny all what I've stated above in those paragraphs, because internally you know and feel it. Moreover,I would like to tell you not to worry yourself , I hope I didn't and won't bother you in any way, neither disturb you nor embarrass you in anyway and anywhere henceforth. Be certain of this. And this is my promise. Thank you once more for all and each of everything. May your happiness in every way last forever. Thank you again.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/3/2018 8:15 pm

Angie Elizabeth Guindi, you know it very well that I was neither close emotionally to anyone in this site nor have I ever signed in any other site using the handle Anam as alleged by you at above. The site F.Friend mentioned at above by you is not familiar to me and there is no one close there who call me as Anam as alleged by you! You need not thank me for making the response to the post that you left on my blog! I have simply pointed out the truth and I shall continue to do so! Incidentally, may I point out here that no one in this site uses the prefix darling before addressing me with love and affection as done in your cases and what prefix you use in response to such posts left on your blogs! I can mention many such examples but I would not do it because I believe in your freedom to choose your friends without bothering about others opinions! Further, May I ask you when I showed you my worries or showed resentment for telling me something unacceptable? Please note that I never felt either embarrassed or bothered to read your comments either here or while chatting in the rooms!
You know that I live alone and a sick person under treatment of at-least two specialists. Could I therefore request you not to hurt me by leaving sarcastic comments here on my blogs or in chat rooms while chatting? In case you feel frustrated for my actions or comments, please feel free to call me on my phone or text me if you still have my e mail address and phone Number. Bye for now. Stay well and cheerful always.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
10/4/2018 1:16 am

Syed Sharful Anam, am afraid that memory is failing you or you're just refusing to acknowledge, to concede or admit the fact of being called and signed Anam on here, (just as one of the proven facts). Well,to ascertain yourself and to get the real proof, would you please, go back further enough on your posts and read them as I eventually did?. It will precisely prove you the truth in writing. For Heaven's sake, I haven't allegedly said it nor fabulated it!!!. However, it does firmly contradict your above denial.~~~~ Secondly, F.Friend as written far above, doesn't mean Friend Finder site which is written differently if well observed!! The m after the F is missed,(Fm.Friend) to make it more understandable. Anyhow it matters little as you're free with your rights too. Words and actions speak a lot, just ponder on them. But I am certainly not frustrated in any way. And you being a sick person as you've stated it just above, I never intend to hurt you anyhow. If you want me to stop commenting on your blog, just simply tell me and I'll do it. If you wish to delete my comments or iggy me or even block me, it is up to you but I won't have any grudge whatsoever against you. Be sure of it. Wishing you all the best always, and thanks again for your reply. Take care of yourself and remain happy always.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/4/2018 7:38 am

I wonder what truth are you looking for, Beth 1949? You know it very well that I do not USE any handle other than the one while entering into either my bog pages or in chat rooms! Even then, you are bent upon to prove that I use Anam as my alternate handle to enter in this site. May I ask you if you do use Lisa or Lisabeth as alternate handles to enter in this site? Further, please tell us why you sign Lisa while responding to the comments left on your blogs by the readers in stead of Beth? Then tell me please what wrong I did if I had signed Anam in response to someone's comment left on one of my blogs? While talking to you in Chat rooms, I use Lisa in stead of Beth most of the times. May be, you don't like it. Okay, I would not use Lisa any longer while chatting in Lobby. Please note my denial did not contradict anything that I said at above post of mine! Therefore, I would reiterate once again I have never entered into any site using Anam as my handle. I have none in my iggy bin except your dearest friend whom most of the members hate! Everyone is free to read my blogs. Why should I block you then from reading my blogs? Beth 1949, believe me for once that I loved only once in my entire life. None can replace her ever! Signing Anam somewhere in response to one's post does not prove anything else which please note! Good Night, Beth 1949. Stay well and cheerful. Hope, you will enjoy your holidays with your relatives and dearest friend whom you address as MD.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
10/4/2018 10:48 am

Am not looking for any truth, I have seen it with naked eyes even, Looklook. If you didn't.... then your glasses may be failing you but to help you remember it and for you to re-read them again, so that you get the real proof, I may tell you where these are, if you wish. I have just read them again few mins back!!!. I didn't say you entered this site with another handle but I said that strangely your are called and addressed by Anam and you have signed as signature Anam also. which means and proves the keen closeness, isn't it? Even a most foolish one would understand it. I still wonder how it came to be so, though you're still denying it!!!. However, I know it's not my business but anyhow it's strange how you bluntly deny it.

Having said that, I see on your new posted photo, you have lost more weight, though I may again be wrong. and said it's none of my business also, but it is noticeable at least by me. Now, concerning my nickname Lisa, or so, you know as well as me, that my handle is Beth1949, which had always been such since I ever joined this site, but when I was asked about my real name which is Elisabeth, then Lisa is derived from it and I signed then Lisa on all my blogs. It is neither my Father's name or family name nor a fabricated handle, as you well know. Your following sentence as I've pasted it here from your above responce, it is: "Then tell me please what wrong I did if I had signed Anam in response to someone's comment left on one of my blogs? ". Hahaha!! Now you are in a way trying to reverse your denial, isn't it!!?? Proving that I was correct. Of course, it is not wrong, whether you are called and sign either Syed, or Sharful or Anam or even another created one !!!. I told you above that it's your absolute Freedom and your total Right. Did I say it is wrong??. Further more I would like know who is my dearest friend that is so hated?, you have the full right to iggy whomever you wish, including me as well, it's your choice. I surely have no qualms about it.
Have you really what you've mentioned above??. Oh wow!! your last line makes me grin really. However thank you for your good wishes, I really wish to enjoy my holiday because I really need it. Besides, the MD you said, does have several meanings, not only what you may doubt. Enjoy your night sleep and keep well and happy always.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/4/2018 11:43 am

I don't understand why should you bother if some one addresses me as 'Anam' and if I respond to such address positively by signing back? Did I ever ask you why someone addresses you as sweetheart Lisa to which you respond back happily? Anyway, it is useless to lengthen this useless conversation any further and therefore I would consider the same as closed!
True, I have lost weight. It is not unusual though. “Everything that has a beginning has an ending".
And as suggested by Jack Kornfield, I have made peace with that expecting that all will end well. I shall stop now so that my concluding line does not make you grin again!


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
10/4/2018 9:50 pm

Yes, you have correctly as above, I shouldn't bother myself with whatever and whomever henceforth. Yes, just consider the conversation as closed. You have all the space, the ground, the air, the waveband beside your full freedom and your rights. Just use them wisely to enjoy complete happiness, which I wish you to behold endlessly. Thank you again.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/7/2018 9:03 pm

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Yes, you have correctly as above, I shouldn't bother myself with whatever and whomever henceforth. Yes, just consider the conversation as closed. You have all the space, the ground, the air, the waveband beside your full freedom and your rights. Just use them wisely to enjoy complete happiness, which I wish you to behold endlessly. Thank you again.
I did not start the conversation, you did. There is no need for you to point out what I have or I have not or suggest what I do or not do!
You have lost that right long time before this day!!


looklook 84M
3925 posts
10/11/2018 11:17 pm

    Quoting  :

Thanks, queen71 for stopping by and for leaving a thoughtful post to ponder. I appreciate. Have a wonderful week end,