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sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
11/28/2017 4:51 pm

    Quoting jiminycricket1:
    A couple of things... first. most men don't think of themselves as men.. it's just not a cognizant reality .. The power from being a man, means virtually nothing to most men, they just don't think about it.
    Some do.. they are easy to pick out.......religious fanactics, narcisissists, homophobes, and power grabbers.
    the Roy Moores and the Donald Trumps are easily identifiable.

    Most men are just the opposite when it comes to gender and sex... I know, I have no power over women... my entire life has told me that. regardless of what society and religion says, I should have.....women tell me differently. I only wish I had the power over women that women hold over me.
    A woman greatest advantage over men is to play down society, and NOT be confrontational... don't force a man to think of himself as a man.

    You may believe it's beneath you to get a man to do what you want, by letting him think it's his idea...... No matter how you think about it .. it works.
    Try being confrontational and get him do what you want.. see if that works.
    It won't with men, nor most likely with anyone else..
    Most Men only think of themselves as men when they are confronted with the idea.....what they are doing is not manly....without confrontation it never crosses their mind.

    women have intrinsically evolved believing they can change men.. It's part of women nature. One that is NOT a fantasy... it's a reality...but you got to do it the right way.
    A man doesn't think himself as a man, until a women tells him... He can't be a man, he's got to be more like a women. That's when the fit hits the sham.
Well, Jiminy, you apparently hang out with a lot of un-awake people.......But hey,
whatever turns your crank, man......


jiminycricket1 74M
13732 posts
11/29/2017 3:09 am

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Well, Jiminy, you apparently hang out with a lot of un-awake people.......But hey,
    whatever turns your crank, man......
The perpetrator or the victim.....If you had to make choice which would it be?

Most would give the obvious answer..but for me, it's not so obvious.

To me it's a choice to be victim of yourself or a victim of someone else.

It paralyses and confuses me!... But I definitely lean towards being the victim.