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Making Friends (or More) Through the Internet 3/15/2006
After one and half years on three different internet "meeting"
sites I've met some people in person, dated a few and
talked to hundreds in chatrooms, IM and via email. It's
brought me to a few conclusions:
1. Take each encounter as exactly that...an encounter.
Some people will like you and some won't. Some will
have needs you can't meet and some will not meet the
needs you have. ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score |
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Instant messenger Scams 3/4/2006
While using the Instant Messenger, I have often been invited
to chat by a variety of people who have this general profile:
young woman, attractive, often a "missionary"
living in Africa, and immediately wants to continue our
chat on Yahoo Messenger. I have "strung" them
along and a few ask for money to help them get back to the U.S.
because she is Sooo in love with me and what a great time ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score |
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cybersex 3/2/2006
SOME men, not all, are either really conceited to the height
that women are sick of hearing about all their fame and fortune,
and that they are looking for a nice lady to retire with,
or they are into cybersex and exposing their body all over
the world, thru a screen, yet, plus encouraging all the
young ladies 18 and older to email them. Women, on the other
hand, most of them, are looking ...
3 Comments, 128 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score |
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Shattered Moments 2/17/2006
This has been passed through and around for along time and
yet we are still all wondering just what is the reason that
couple's, after years of marriage, feel its time to
call it quits. Why don't they want to stay with the one
that they have romanced, fell in love with
raised a family with, and grew together over and over, throughout
the years. Had many of argruements, worked together on ...
4 Comments, 105 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score |
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Valentines Day alone, The Princessa Treatment for Women 2/8/2006
Valentines Day, Alone, Sounds a little dismal eh? Whether
it is a temporary condition, brought on by your busy days,
or you haven’t found the one, or the one isn’t near, it could
really “bum you out, ” unless you remember that you are
a Princessa.
A true Princessa knows that she has alone time, and that
precious time will be spent to revitalize, luxuriously, ...
4 Comments, 113 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score |
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Rudeness in not responding to ones add 2/3/2006
Have you ever noticed how many people write letters to each
other here, and you never get a response? We all tend in this
world to be rude in some form, fashion or style, wether
we think we are being that way on purpose or not. The same
goes in responding to ones add's here on Senior Friend
Finder. I have noticed that if someone isn't interested
in another person, instead of not taking a ...
2 Comments, 174 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score |
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Oh my gosh!!!! 1/28/2006
Why is it when you ask a man to send another photo they always seem to have a nude photo handy? Now I am soooo not a prude. And I also actually take a good look at these pictures lol...but come on......Do these guys think that I can actually take them serious after they send me a nude ( at least so soon) ha ha
Plus I am amazed at the number of men that have photo's of their penis'. Come on ...
2 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score |
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Some are loners. 1/8/2006
For many of us, it seems we were meant to be alone. The question
is why.
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Put yourself out there is what we are told. So we try. It still
doesn't seem to work.
<br>
I've had many blessings. Have a lot to offer. But that
doesn't guarantee anything.
<br>
Life isn't easy and it never will be. But it could be
easier if it was divided by 2. The realities of life ...
1 Comments, 142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score |
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WHY IS IT THAT YOU MEN DON'T EVEN RESPOND? 12/31/2005
I am relatively new to Senior Friendfinders but find that
although I have searched and answered say "Men searching
Women" sections in different states and Canada and
not even ONE reply. Has anyone else had this luck??? I don't
know if these are old names and profiles they're using
or still have not removed those that were fortunate enough
to have found their "true love" or perhaps they ...
5 Comments, 378 Views,
15 Votes
,4.66 Score |
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Do you ever wonder? 12/26/2005
We put our pictures and profiles in here but get passed up
a lot. Do you ever wonder what the viewer sees or what crosses
the viewers mind when they read the profile? Or even an email?
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I have many times said just a few words to a guy and he zooms
out of sight never to be seen again. Makes me wonder if I have
horns that I can't see, or speak a language understood
only by me.
...
2 Comments, 98 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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can one know 12/19/2005
I have never been involved with anyone on here before or
had a long distance relationship. Do we just play the role
and hope for the best or do we insist on meeting somewhere
along the way.Take two people of the opposite sex that feels
the chemistry just by communicating with each other, and,
yes, possibly seeing pictures of the other, where does
one draw the line and say we need to meet. ...
8 Comments, 310 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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Meditiaton to Visualize Prosperous Financial Reality 12/4/2005
Write down everything that
opposes you in getting the prosperous financial reality
that you desire could be;fear, lack of experience, lack
of contacts, ad infitum). Also
take one piece of parchment paper and write the same things
on it.
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Every night for three nights keep writing everything that
you can think of , burn the papers with the writings on it
while visualizing ...
1 Comments, 101 Views,
15 Votes
,0.68 Score |
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Restlessness and discontent 11/27/2005
Generally I give preferance to unconvetional, new ideas,
excitement
and changes but become easily boared and also move on prematurely
put the things unfinished.Nevertheless, can you suggest
me how can I get rid from the deep inner restlessness and
all discontents?
3 Comments, 115 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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Turn On My Light 11/11/2005
Maybe it would be a good idea if SFF started a new section
on "Why Doesn't My Light Shine" Just a section where we could go in and ask for personal opinions
of why we are bombing in here.
Then others could tell us why they decline us or pass us by.
Just constructive criticism. Not to be mean but to be honest
and give us some pointers.
We can't fix it if we don't know what is broke.
0 Comments, 116 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score |
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A Woman's Advice on Men's Profiles 10/17/2005
Thank you for being willing to read this! So often I read
a man's profile, and end up thinking "if only
he hadn't written this or that sentence'"
Am I too fussy? Certainly! But here's what I've
been wanting to tell some of you men about your profiles...and
maybe you can get more dates, who knows, by taking some of
my ideas:
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1. Leave out ALL references to sex. Guys, ...
5 Comments, 331 Views,
25 Votes
,5.90 Score |
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Nursing Homes Should be better 10/8/2005
My father is in a nursing home. When I go to visit him, I know
that he doesn't like it their, but, I know he's
getting the care that he need's their. I feel very sad
when it's time to leave. I know he doesn't want
me to leave, or say good-bye. I've told him that I've
their could be anywhere in the world that I would want him
to be, it would doing what he use to do. He was a ham radio ...
3 Comments, 53 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score |
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life, 101 9/25/2005
Stay in touch with your family. But don't live in the
same town.
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Make sure your know how much you love them. Make
sure they also know that you are not the bank, the daycare
or the doormat.
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Get in shape, take pride in the way you look but understand
that you probably didn't look like christie brinkley
when you were young and you certainly aren't going
to ...
1 Comments, 97 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score |
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The Most 9/8/2005
The most destructive habit.......Worry
The greatest Joy.................Giving
The greatest loss............Loss of self-respect
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The most satisfying work......Helping others
The ugliest personality trait...Selfishness
The most endangered species...Dedicated leaders
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Our greatest natural resource...Our youth
The greatest "shot in the arm"..Encouragement
The ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score |
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Choosing Friends On The Internet 8/27/2005
It seems to me that many people choose their net friends
by location. But I wonder what the criteria is?
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There are certainly so many more people on the East and West
coast than anywhere else. What about the rest of us?
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Are we judged by our location or is it just that California
and Florida, and maybe Texas sound so much more intriguing.
And also across the ocean ...
0 Comments, 82 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Let your beauty shine! 8/23/2005
Add photos to your listing that show who you are.
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Ideas on finding a photographer to work with:
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Look for photographers on SFF.
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Offer to model for photo classes at a local college.
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If you like photography take a class and get to know others
with this interest.
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Thoughts on what you can do to help the photographer: ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
13 Votes
,1.63 Score |
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Tired of Small Minds 8/23/2005
Here is a thought for those men out there who believe they
have all the answers to the "big" ladies dilemmma.
No one is accusing you of not taking notice of a beautiful,
kind hearted, capable of returning more love than you can
handle. However get your facts straight before writing
an article about a topic you have no idea of what you know
nothing about. Now that is not proper English I ...
2 Comments, 14 Views,
27 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Not So Confused 8/23/2005
Today I mananged to read every article placed here. I will
say that I have the best laugh Ive had in months. Many articles
were great and deserved to be here. The rest was mind boggling.
Why so many of the same people wrote articles is beyond me.
Why? Because all the articles written by the same people
were complaints. Not once did they have a kind word to say,
but only complained about the ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
30 Votes
,2.65 Score |
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The Big Red Flags 8/23/2005
Ever heard the expression, go with your gut feeling?
It’s true you know. If you listen to your gut you can’t go
wrong and soon you’ll understand which issue are going
to be big red flags when meeting and dating on the Internet.
I’ve listed a few below
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1. Do they live with ma? Unless there under 21 that might
be a big red flag as to their ability ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
31 Votes
,6.59 Score |
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Relationship Doom... 8/11/2005
As a relationship gets deeper, many issues can surface,
any one of which can spell doom. If you or your partner have
any of the issues listed below, don't ruin your relationship
by ignoring them. Be sure to talk about them openly and honestly.
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Decision Making
"I find myself paralyzed anytime I need to make an
important decision." Living On the Sidelines
"I'm not taking ...
0 Comments, 262 Views,
18 Votes
,2.58 Score |
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Are You Throwing Away Your Chances 8/9/2005
If you are a sincere guy and looking for a real relationship,
don't throw it away.
Guys seem to think women like all the sex talk and maybe some
do. But it should not be the first item on the lets get acquainted
list. It's a quick turn off. You could at least give
it a little time to see if that is what she wants.
When you come on so strong in the first two sentences, it
appears to be ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score |
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WHAT LADIES ARE LOOKING FOR! 7/23/2005
Naturally, I can only speak for myself; however, here goes:
First, I joined this service to find someone who ACTUALLY
READS my profile...which states exactly the type of person
I seek! If I state that I won't answer winks or contacts
without pictures, why on earth do I keep getting 'winks'
with NO picture? In addition, (mind you, this is not meant
to be disrespectful); however, it would ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
105 Votes
,1.17 Score |
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How long to grow up? 7/22/2005
Human beings can be very cruel. We've all done it. Laughed
at or called out some 'witty' remark. To someone
with a deformity or illness. That makes them not quite 'normal'.
'If' I had been born with the sence I have now. Maybe
I would not have made so many people unhappy. But it has taken
half a century of life to learn this mistake.
Yesterday I was in a pub having lunch. At the same time ...
1 Comments, 97 Views,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score |
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Love is Divine 7/10/2005
When you're 17 or 70, or in between, love is the supreme
emotion that lifts you off the floor and lets you walk on
air. When you're in love, everything is brighter and
better. You feel like singing, dancing, whistling, skipping,
kissing and touching. The sky is bluer, the dark clouds
less threatening. Your smile is broader. You want to shout
it from the housetops to tell the world the ...
1 Comments, 215 Views,
23 Votes
,5.93 Score |
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Social Tips for Rednecks ...... 7/3/2005
and just plain good advice
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In General...
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1. Never take a beer to an interview.
2. Always identify people in your yard before shooting
them.
3. It's considered tacky to take a cooler to church.
4. If you have to vacuum the bed, it's time to change
the sheets.
5. Even if you're certain that you're included
in the will, it's rude to drive a U-haul to ...
2 Comments, 136 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score |
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ACTS STRANGE? 6/24/2005
ACTS STRANGE?
Is your very moody, doesn’t laugh, or doesn't
like to be touched? Do they sit and stare blankly? Be very
concerned, you are about to be tested.
If they are ill at ease amongst almost all but you, be very
suspicious! Lack of trust is a sure sign that something
is very wrong in their lives.
Good parents deal with a threat to their 's life.
Bad parents look ...
4 Comments, 145 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score |