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coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
A kiss is just a kiss   3/2/2006

I like to kiss, but I like it a certain way, I don't mind french kissoing, either. Everybody has their own way of doing things, which includes kissing. Is it wrong for one to tell the other that they don't like how they kiss? And would a man be willing to change his kissing style? Would a woman be willing to? Is it possible thbat after years of kissing the same way, do you think that onew ...


5 Comments, 206 Views, 21 Votes ,6.59 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
what kind do you want   3/2/2006

ladies, men are really baffled. They are wondering just what you want in a relationship? Are you lo0king for a lovydovey style, and old fashioned style, a sexless style, or just a sexy style. do you go out to bars with the girls often? Do you want your spouse to come to the bar with you and your girlfriends? (he probably would be happy, too and it might even make him more affectionate when ...


2 Comments, 75 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
CAN YOU SEE ME   3/2/2006

members why do you post a picture of yourself, where we can't tell if you are blonde, redhaired, or got blue toes even? We need one that has you in a clear view sso we can SEE YOU. One is not willing to guess, or assume what you look like in person, if we are to meet you one day, so why bother to post a picture that is not helping you or anyone. I have met a couple guys from SFF to find ...


6 Comments, 115 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
SEX- the ultimate question   3/2/2006

Why is SEX so important to many people these days.? A woman feels out of place and left out even when she is dressed nicely today. If she is dressed sexy, then she will be looked at. Do we women need to feel that we must let out top hang down the shoulder as far as possible, wear our dresses away above the knee. BIG boots are required and WALK with a wiggle. What ever happened to just good ...


11 Comments, 173 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
true love can be great   3/2/2006

WHAT IS LOVE-- how many definitions Do you know for the word "love?" Everybody has had a taste of love in their life, one way or another.Rather its the opposite sex, brother and sister connection, a mother, a father, your grandparents, or your chilfren. One can love their friend, as well, only in a different way then with your spouse. With any relationship we do not accept any kind of ...


4 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
DeeLo 71 F
1  Article
Why is the kiss so important?   2/14/2006

Because the kiss is the only place where two people can meet, other than the eyes. The lips/tongue are the one part the body that can express the deepest feelings, the windows and doors of who we are what we want. How do I know this? Because I have been fortunate enough to have connected with men through a kiss, the softness of the under-lip rubbing and searching, tongue-tips touching and a ...


6 Comments, 125 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
Pinay5 63 F
1  Article
Revealing Oneself   2/2/2006

I don't know how to say this and I am saying this for the first time. Physically I am female, otherwise, I am different. I have been married, have and everything stays the same with me. It is very painful to admit you are different because people are so cruel and mean. When you are different, you are looked at like you have some contagious disease. I lived in my shell and my pretenses. I ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
cjc1939 83 F
2  Articles
Relationships are Formed on the Internet   1/23/2006

Hello thought maybe I should do an update on my blog " It started with a Blog". <br> It has now been 6 month since 60minman and I started spending time together. We continue to grow closer each day and I love him very much. Life without him would be so lonely and I am so thankful that God brought us together. This part with us has been very easy as we live close enough to see one ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Our own self   1/21/2006

To be involved with your inner sense is good for many and terrible for others. One reason for this is, alot of people don't know what they want. We tend to say, this, but we mean that. We will do that, but really want to do this. We go to places that we aren't interested in, just to please someone else. We wander in various directions most of our lives, and don't usually get anywhere. ...


2 Comments, 82 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
A Strand of Friendship   1/18/2006

Friendship is a nice thing once you know that you have found a good friend. But, what exactly is a "good friend" There are friends then there friends. Most people have got A friend, rather its a male or a female. It doesn't really matter what sex they are, providing they aren't married to someone else, or dating someone. A friend can be your neighbor, someone that you you just go for coffee ...


4 Comments, 281 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
sunshineokie 78 F
7  Articles
STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie   1/15/2006

Sorry Kiddos, here I am, on my journey, in my Third Age...and everytime I think I've gotten soemthing all figured out...I get a newer, upgraded perspective. Building a relationship with a platonic friend seems to require about the same-ole-same-ole, ya know. Just, be good to each other, mind your manners, be polite, return what you borrow. But let me tell YOU! This romancing stuff takes ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Friendship is needed......   1/12/2006

Friendship! sweeter of life. and soldier of society.Like it or not, friends are becoming more and more important to the average person. Friendship is good for our soul. As we get older, we need good friends to keep us young. A good friendship can help us to be healthy, and avoid the possibility of getting depressed, and desperate for better living. It has been proven, also, that breast ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
SvetlanaCh 64 F
1  Article
Plus of distance relationship   1/11/2006

When people have e-mail correspondence or talk on-line, they have possibility know about inside of soul, about what in mind of person they decide meet with, may be this is big "plus" of distance relationship... when two people onward be aware of interest, thought, internal world of that person, with which they are met subsequently...


1 Comments, 114 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Lonely6656 70 M
1  Article
My Sweetheart!   1/10/2006

I.am very new to this so please bare with me.I don't even know where to start but, I have always been told that it's best to start at the beggining so I will.It has been my pleasure to have met alot of people through the chatrooms of SFF.I was truely a very lucky man when I met Jes4now.She is a very loving and understanding and patient woman.I have never met anyone quite like her.I truely ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
Honeybunz2 76 F
2  Articles
Meeting With Someone from SFF   1/9/2006

Hi, this is my first magazine article, so everyone bear with me if it isn't something you want to read. I met my hubby here on this site, so I have nothing bad to say about SFf (except for the normal complaints about it not working right, posts not being posted, and so forth). <br> The thing that folks need to remember is that this site is a microcosm of the world, ...


4 Comments, 277 Views, 29 Votes ,6.25 Score
helenshotman 60 F
1  Article
Destiny   1/1/2006

Never find ur destiny, let destiny find u.Its Ok to cry as hard and as long you want to just make sure, that when u stop crying.You won't cry for the same reason anymore.Life is a journey keep on going until you reach your destiny.


1 Comments, 84 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Fitramon 73 M
7  Articles
The question   12/29/2005

Why every time I try to find a friend the paper with the request of MONEY stares on me from the monitor ??


2 Comments, 123 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Using Astrology to help with Relationship   12/18/2005

Astrology is a guide for helping you understand the strenght and challenges in a relationship, It is not the alpha or the omega in decison makeing. Astrology merely suggests methods on understanding your potential significant other and suggestions on how to live life to the fullest. Real Astrology is quite complex and assumptions are made based on intricate calculations. Putting too much ...


4 Comments, 81 Views, 17 Votes ,0.72 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Finding A Lost Lover With Horary Astrology   12/17/2005

Where is your lover hiding. Cast A Chart. Find the Ruling Planet of the Seventh House and look whree it located. <br> If it's in a fire sign look at place of Middle height or level, near a wall, by a fire or heat source, near something that is iron or steel <br> If it's in a Water sign, your lover may be hiding in a bathtub, near a lake or river In lowlands, near ...


1 Comments, 68 Views, 17 Votes ,0.72 Score
softnessreal 76 F
3  Articles
ALLOW yourself to play   12/13/2005

ALLOW your Inner feelings out to Play It takes talent to play the mind but I never play games with the heart. I am too wise. I was born, ‘responsible’, and my ‘undoing’ of the systems oppressive mind set was to fight with ‘Delight’. Delight is “losing the mind, finding the body, and regaining the MIND anew.' Being ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
softnessreal 76 F
3  Articles
ON POND.....mirroring lessons everywhere   12/12/2005

On Pond Quite a pair of Ducks in this Pond! She, quietly dressed in neutral feathers, Just Being. He, brilliant colors, contrasts showy say Look at me. <br> They circle this shimmering reflective domain. Checking the circumference she makes lots of quiet stops. He keeps cruising, restless. <br> She waddles onto a shore near me sits on the grass, ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
softnessreal 76 F
3  Articles
PERFECTION of imperfection.....poetic wisdom   12/12/2005

Perfection of imperfection <br> Wise Woman, this as cervical ground onto Earthy breast. Soft in gesture, nurturing as sleep this call of LOVE to sweetly keep. Each crevice new for Male explore, to go to depths and hunger more, to charge his thrust within me deep, and if withdrawn is not complete. <br> His call, to teach his Truth of me of moving out through ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Self-love equals happy holidays   12/5/2005

I give myself a present at the holidays. No, it's not jewelry, a fur coat or a new car. It's a loving inventory of how I've grown in the past year, heralding the changes in my life and giving glory to God for providing the courage to recognize the good and beautiful in all that surrounds me. You can't have love unless you give it away. May your New Year be filled with good health, ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
bachelorbythesea 65 M
1  Article
cultivating a beautiful romance   11/27/2005

Romance doesn't have to end.Love keeps getting better.Passion will be tamed somewhat The spark that turns into a flame, can also consume common sense. <br> There is only one person in world that can make me happy , and that person is me. I need to be happy, to be in love with life, and to continue to evolve spiritually. I have been in love and understand about minimizing ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
how many steps   11/25/2005

to build a relationship on the internet, is hard, I imagine. First you don't know who you are dealing with, you don't know if you can trust what they tell you, you don't know if you should let your chemistry get the best of you, you don't know nothing, period. What to do, we ask ourselves. I think it is best to just communicate with one another, and if you feel there could be a chance of ...


3 Comments, 142 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
old fashioned relationship   11/25/2005

This article is to all the male members, remember when your mother told you how she came to meet your father...First, she had trouble passing the idea to her father about even dating, then she had to be chaperoned by a big brother, next, she had to be home early, then she had to abide by all these strict rules from her father. Not to mention when she fell in love with your father and was ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
should one consider a pre-nuptial agreement   11/21/2005

I haven't really believed in a pre-nuptial agreement, as I think thats a way of showing no trust in your partner. A relationship is based on trust to start with and forever more, so if you bring up pre-nup couldn't that hurt your relationship? I don't think I would ever ask for one.


0 Comments, 71 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
start a business, have relationship   11/14/2005

If we all thought of a relationship as running a business nowadays, I think there would be more couples trying to keep that relationship in heat. To have a good strong relationship one must work at it just the same as running a business. If its important to you, you will always look for new ways of keeping it going. Its hard work because once you have it going you need to find ways to keep ...


0 Comments, 267 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Falling leaves II   11/12/2005

Perhaps someone would like to comment on the simile "don't hold that kitten too tightly, hold it gingerly and listen to it PURr". Maybe it is too cloudy in its meaning.


0 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Falling leaves   11/4/2005

Falling leaves, like relationships, will fall whether you like it or not. The ebb and flow of nature shows us the path to follow in seeking harmony. Don't squeeze that little kitten too tightly. Hold it gingerly, and listen to it PURR !


0 Comments, 72 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score