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Something about my own birth... 10/23/2005
Some autobiographical notes of Nora
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That 7th of March, Saturday, when Nora was born, it was the
last day of Carnival. "Something to do with ashes..."
with her characteristic imprecision, her mother had always
repeated to whoever asked her.
Besides her mother’s luxuriant Imaginary, what kind of
effect could the words "Saturday-carnival-ashes"
have ...
0 Comments, 99 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Second-class citizens 9/24/2005
When a single, available woman settles for a married man
who is looking for a "discrete affair", she
is accepting the status of a second-class citizen. This
man is so ashamed of his behavior and you that he wouldn't
want his friends nor the woman to whom he has pledged lifelong
fidelity to discover his secret life. Don't you deserve
the best? Don't you love yourself enough to wait until ...
2 Comments, 232 Views,
24 Votes
,4.27 Score
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How To Charm A Gemini Into Matrimony 9/22/2005
Come on Baby, lets go to Vegas, Pack your bags, we are leaving
in two hours, Gemini will be ready. Geminis like quick on
the spur decisions and immediate action. Action is the
magic word. If a Gemini wants it, he wants it now. The moment
is critical and you must go
with it. Otherwise- it will never come back.
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The Gemini likes instant coffee, instant breakfast and
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4 Comments, 154 Views,
15 Votes
,0.53 Score
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How To Get An Aquarius to Commit Matrimony 9/14/2005
The Aquarius is one of the most fixed stubburnly independant
signs of the zodiac. They want friendship not love. They
usually have a major case of committment-phobia. Key songs
for the Aquarius are "Baby Baby - Don't Get Hooked
on Me."
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If you want to keep an Aquarius around, just tell them that
you are already in a somewhat committed relationship but
you need them ...
3 Comments, 194 Views,
20 Votes
,2.10 Score
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A new begining......... 8/31/2005
When we meet someone and they become that speacial someone,
always keep the romance fresh, keep in contact every day
that is so important to hear a loved ones voice, it brings
a smile, all ways do little things I send cheeky little texts
i also put little message were I know he can find them sometime
that day, tell him /her what you think or feel, by phone or
text if and when you can, when ...
8 Comments, 680 Views,
52 Votes
,4.72 Score
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Age 8/21/2005
I have been on a few dating sites but i find this one is by far
the best, i have made some good friends from here , but
tell me does age really matter, i dont think so ..but it
does seem like some ladies think so.
5 Comments, 181 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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HURRY UP - SLOW DOWN 8/6/2005
When starting a relationship do we rush and get to the first
date , or take one day at a time?
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Personally I would prefare to take it slow get to know each
other a bit on the net then chatting via phone to see if you
laugh at the same things... can you both chat with ease,
do you have simular likes or dislikes ? if you chat with a
person long enough, and they are not gen... ...
3 Comments, 123 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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A wonderful Message by George Carlin 6/30/2005
Like to share a wonderful Message by George Carlin, hope
you enjoy it:
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The paradox of our time in history is that
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we have taller buildings but shorter tempers,
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wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints.
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We spend more, but have less,
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we buy more, but enjoy less.
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We ...
5 Comments, 491 Views,
60 Votes
,7.85 Score
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ALONE AGAINST DESTINY 6/18/2005
I FELL SO BAD THAT IT´S DIFFICULT FOR ME TO WRITE, I FEEL
THAT I WANT TO SCREAM, AND I CAN´T , BUT IT´S SO MUCH MY NEEDNES
THAT I´M CRYING NOW .I´M SORRY IF I TELL YOU IT.MY
IS SICK SINCE LAST DECEMBER I´M VERY SAD BECAUSE SHE CAN´T
WORK BY THE MOMENT.I´M DIVORCED AND I HAVE A LITTLE ALIMONY
PENSION, I´M DEPRESSED BECAUSE AT THE SAME TIME, I HAVE
RECIVED BAD NEWS , MY EX LAWYER ...
3 Comments, 277 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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Just Keep your Heart Open 6/12/2005
I approach every new "meeting" or first date
with an open heart and an open mind. That's not always
easy, because that first meeting usually follows e-mails
and phone calls and YES definately, a well formed opinion.
Those of us who have dating experience tucked well under
our belts carefully steer away from "jaded",
"sterio typical" thoughts and step up to enjoying
the experience of a new ...
1 Comments, 324 Views,
24 Votes
,5.40 Score
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Magical formula 6/4/2005
I sometimes think having a relationship becomes a habit.
Some people seem to go through life having one partner after
another.
Yet, somewhere along the line they both must have felt something
surely? Or perhaps I'm being cynical.
Good companionship, likes and dislikes,
sex or dare I say it. Love!
These people who have two or even more partners in their
lives. Surely don't do it ...
2 Comments, 151 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Opening yourself to a relationship 5/31/2005
Opening yourself to a relationship so fully that you actually
lose your mind is a dangerous, scary and exhilarating thing.
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It can be wonderful. But passion isn't enough.
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There comes a time when that bright passion that carried
you along fades a little. Sometimes, it just vanishes.
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Where are you then?
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If all that your ...
1 Comments, 164 Views,
17 Votes
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I am a builder (of sorts)! 5/28/2005
When you build something that is going to last, you must
first of all get really good foundations. Know what pressures
are to be put on them. Know how high you are going. But most
of all know yourself.
When you have the foundations laid, make sure that they
are level and true. ANYTHING WRONG AT THIS STAGE WILL THROW
EVERYTHING OUT OF TRUE ALIGNMENT.
Now you can start. I like plenty of ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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How soon does the building start? 5/27/2005
Do we start building at the first mail, the first phone call,
or after the first meeting? Maybe it is after the second
meeting as all before that is just meeting, or does it only
come when we agree we are going forward?
4 Comments, 326 Views,
17 Votes
,3.41 Score
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good relationships come in all sizes and shapes 5/17/2005
This is about my grandsons! They are 9 and 11. The youngest
called me up last weekend to make sure I was coming to his
little league game. (Like I would have missed it!!) My 11
year old plays catcher and the 9 year old is on the same team
and plays third base. MY 11 year old caught a pop fly (halfway
to first base) and quickly threw it to his brother on third
and he tagged the runner ...
1 Comments, 106 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Love is blind 5/17/2005
When, after years of having what you think is loving, caring,
relationship. It suddenly dawns on you that it is all one
sided. That all you have done is given and got nothing back
in return. Then love really is blind.
0 Comments, 131 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Being Careful With Whom You Trust Yor Heart 5/16/2005
Not all the times are bad in a relationship till you start
finding out the other does not care and just wants to be friends
and really dont want that. You have given you heart and soul
to this person and you get played for a fool, some cultures
are to have respect, honor and lose face for these things
but it does not always apply to them, guess they are the exceptions.I
dont see how a ...
0 Comments, 150 Views,
13 Votes
,2.81 Score
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Commitment 5/12/2005
What is commitment to you? To me it's: Promise, truth,
word of honor, trust, assurance, understanding, agreement
and pact.
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Care to add anything else ladies and gents?
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Lydia
0 Comments, 82 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Relationships Aren't Easy 5/11/2005
Relationships are never easy; finding and keeping the
right person can be a constant challenge. Doubt and fear
prevent many of us from listening to our hearts. We imagine
problems and find faults with our partner or potential
partner. And we become unable to love or be loved.
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Many of us allow the ego to get in the way of true love. There
is a process involved when ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Are You Really Ready for A Relationship? 4/27/2005
Hello Everyone. I wanted to say that most of us are on this
website hopefully for the same reason, to find a permanent,
satisfying relationship aren't we? I have heard that
some people are in it only for the sex and that's not
what I'm about. Unfortunately, it ruins it for some
of us who don't feel that way. I've actually heard
this from women, as well as the men. Most of us have already ...
3 Comments, 409 Views,
31 Votes
,5.54 Score
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LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP..Definition Please 4/17/2005
In most profiles you will see LTR...Definition LONG TERM
RELATIONSHIP...
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My question is LTR does that refer to an "Open"
Relationship or a "closed exclusive" Relationship.
This is a question that should be asked by each party before
entering into an LTR. If it is not asked the faint of heart
can be hurt very badly.
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1 Comments, 281 Views,
10 Votes
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to build or not to build... 4/6/2005
there seems to be so much energy and enthusiasm for building
the perfect relationship. i've enjoyed some very
satisfying relationships in my lifetime... but i've
reached a point where i am not so eager to 'adjust'
to someone else anymore. instead of cooking big meals,
i eat cold cereal for supper when i want to. and i don't
have to work around someone else's moods...don't
have to explain ...
2 Comments, 149 Views,
14 Votes
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Open communication 3/17/2005
Hello, how much should I tell my sexual partners about my
fantasies? I don't want to scare them away but I also
want to explore the full realms of sex.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
5 Votes
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Is your relationship healthy? 3/12/2005
In a healthy relationship, you:
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Treat each other with respect
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Feel secure and comfortable
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Are not violent with each other
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Can resolve conflicts satisfactorily
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Enjoy the time you spend together
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Support one another
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Take interest in one another's lives health, ...
0 Comments, 151 Views,
23 Votes
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Good relationships - a personal definition 2/17/2005
To me, a partner that appreciates relationships are a journey,
not a destination is fundamental.
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As on any journey, experience is enhanced by relection
over time. Yet I hear many suggest they defintely want this
or absolutely need that in a relationship right now - or
else!
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Having preferences is natural, but reducing a relationship
search to a shopping list ...
2 Comments, 173 Views,
16 Votes
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Relationship must have a solid foundation 2/6/2005
I am not a silver nor a gold member here.. I just want to share
my thoughts...
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I believe that any relationship must start with sharing.
ie communication... One has to learn the value of being
honest to open up, at least initially...
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Friendship nurtured by honesty, sincerity and guidance
from the Lord is one of the many ways by which we could really
feel ...
0 Comments, 115 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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How to get the right relationship 2/6/2005
Love is not matter on how to get the right person, but to get
the right relationship. the important question is are
you capable to build a relationship that you wanted?
1 Comments, 78 Views,
11 Votes
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Trust, honesty and respect are the main ingridient on how to build a relationship 2/6/2005
How to build a relationship? here are the main ingridients
on how to build a relationship.
1.) Love & care
2.) trust
3.) honesty
4.)understanding
5.) and respect
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if there is one missing of the main ingridients we cannot
build the relationship we wanted to have.
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by: singlemom122157 02/05/2005
0 Comments, 57 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Have you had success on SFF or other sites? 2/4/2005
I've heard so many negative comments about these dating
sites. Does anyone have a success they would like to tell
us about?
4 Comments, 236 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
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YOU CAN FIND TRUE LOVE ON LINE 1/12/2005
Some may think after a few mix ups that they can't find
a dearest and truest love relation on line.. Especialy
the ladies such as myself..I learned a few lessons about
looking into chat rooms..there are some success stories
there, but mine did not begin in chat..My fiance found
me through my profile and I wrote an honest to goodness article
on my likes , dislikes and who and what Iam..was ...
5 Comments, 389 Views,
50 Votes
,7.18 Score
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