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How far has life changed? 5/28/2005
I feel we are in a world that has changed in a wrong way. It
seems years ago dating safety would have only meant being
careful if you became active that no were brought into
the world. I never had to worry of it as I was not going there
anyway.
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Now we talk of sickos and people who wish to harm or take anothers
life...We many times think of our .. OK grandchildren
I ...
3 Comments, 169 Views,
16 Votes
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Dating Safely On Line For Ladies 5/2/2005
Ladies, I know how excited we all get when we see someone
on line and want so badly to get to know all about them.
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I have friends who tell me how scary it is for them to do the
on-line dating thing. It isn't any more scary than
meeting someone in a bar, or through a friend, etc. The question
I get often is "What do you talk about, how do you get
to know them, where do you ...
2 Comments, 654 Views,
59 Votes
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Those Red Flags! 3/20/2005
I recently ended a cyber relationship, not from SSF, because
the man in question wanted to come to town to visit me much
too soon, after only one phone call, and assumed he would
be invited to my home. He made sexual innuendoes which went
beyond flirtatious, wanted to know if I would ever want
to go out with friends instead of being with my partner,
and almost seemed to be planning our ...
3 Comments, 317 Views,
30 Votes
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STD's 3/17/2005
Hello, I use condoms on every sexual occasion but not sure
how to protect myself when performing oral on a lady. Any
thoughts or ways that are easy to implement?
5 Comments, 458 Views,
23 Votes
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STALKERS, The complete article? 2/23/2005
STALKERS
When you have an "unlisted" number, you pay
repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information and
asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that
listing is non-published." That admission in itself
gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out
there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you
are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.)
I found ...
0 Comments, 149 Views,
11 Votes
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STALKERS 2/22/2005
STALKERS
<<When you have an "unlisted" number,
you pay repeated charge. Also, if someone calls information
and asks for your listing, the operator will say, "that
listing is non-published." That admission in itself
gives a wealth of information you may not want to be "out
there." (Yes, you still are in the area... yes you
are trying to hide... the knowshe still has you scared.)
...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
3 Votes
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Black Belt Approved, STOP , LEARN IN 5 MINUTE KUNG FU- 2/9/2005
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60% of incarcerated for ! 1/3 females,
1/7 males !
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An attacker grabs your arm, QUICKLY twist it towards his
thumb, while using your ARM against his THUMB. Strong attackers ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
7 Votes
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Thinning The Herd? 12/24/2004
I was giving this 'dating safety' thing some thought
last evening. A question kept nagging me like an ex who didn't
find what she wanted with the lawn care guy.
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Has humanity been dumbed down so much it cannot exercise
the rudiments of common sense in enjoying some of the inherent
risks and mysteries of romance?
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I really don't have a ...
0 Comments, 204 Views,
23 Votes
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be safe 12/22/2004
It is important when meeting someone 4 the first time that
you dont give out tooo much personal information be safe
instead of sorry.
It is also A good idea too not go to your dates home on the first
date.Most important tip be yourself be honest and sincere.
1 Comments, 190 Views,
17 Votes
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It CAN happen to YOU!! 12/21/2004
It does not matter if you are female or male....nor does
it matter where you are located....you really can be the
victim....I was. Granted it was a matter of trusting too
soon......even if you think you really know the person
quite well...the rules they have posted on here ARE good
ones indeed and following them might mean saving your life.
It can happen to a man just as easily as to a ...
2 Comments, 411 Views,
43 Votes
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Safety tips women should know & practice 11/20/2004
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
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Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
26 Votes
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Safety & Survival Signals for Women 11/20/2004
The Gift of Fear
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and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
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By Gavin de Becker
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The following is taken from pages 210-212.
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There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated
with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be
present in every case, but if a situation has ...
0 Comments, 95 Views,
18 Votes
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Fostering Obsession with online courtship 11/6/2004
There are arguements presented that it is "safe"
to spend the time to get to know the other person with extensive
email, chats and phone conversations first. I'm not
sold this is correct, or safe.
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There are equal arguements that a very early meeting the
other person "safely" in a very public place,
so that you can not be followed back to your home or work,
may avoid ...
0 Comments, 142 Views,
31 Votes
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You think you connect...then what...is he/she real? 8/21/2004
This is really a dilemna in today's world. So many people
try to pass as someone they aren't for various reasons.
Some are in bad marriages and want a fling. Some have agendas
more attached to financial issues. It doesn't matter
what the ultimate reason...what matters is our own security.
Obviously all of us know that not posting a picture is a flag.
There are good reasons for no ...
1 Comments, 78 Views,
31 Votes
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Ref HappyTrail35 7/9/2004
I understand what you are saying about safety and should
you take a cab and keep your car hidden. It seems to me like
you are really paranoid (only my opinion) about meeting
someone for the first time. In these times maybe that's
not a bad thing but I really do think you are carrying this
a little too far.
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For the most part the man/woman you meet will be just as cautious ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
25 Votes
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Better safe than sorry 6/13/2004
Putting your best foot forward on a first date is usually
done. However, in the case of SFF members, perhaps it is
safer to walk as if your feet are walking on egg shells. Taking
it slow, steady and playing it out always is the best method
to develop a relationship. No one shows their frailities
until you know them for awhile. I wish you all peace.
0 Comments, 43 Views,
28 Votes
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Forget the coffee shops indeed!!! 5/20/2004
Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian
in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next
unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it,
populated shop would be far safer than an isolated area
where one is neither sure of the escape route nor sure of
whom she is meeting. Better safe than sorry.
0 Comments, 47 Views,
34 Votes
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Why are there so few unattached men on SFF? 3/28/2004
After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's
SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with
MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough
single men on the site to give the volume necessary to maintain
the interest of the women. My theory is "better quality
over quantity" Please refine the Cupid's software
to match with the single preferences together.
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1 Comments, 58 Views,
119 Votes
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personal security. 3/22/2004
if done carefully, an internet search for a companion can
be quite safe, enjoyable and a very wonderful experience
in your life.
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there are some simple little things to avoid if you wish
to keep personal information secure until you decide the
other person is worth seeing/communicating with.
first:NEVER reveal more than your first name. if you reveal
a city ...
0 Comments, 67 Views,
69 Votes
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Be the tortoise, not the hare 3/20/2004
Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned,
albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient,
and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal
email, phone number, address to someone you have just met
will only endanger, not enhance your meeting with the stranger.
If there is truly something positive to develop between
two people, maybe we should all tread ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
37 Votes
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Alice in Wonderland 3/20/2004
Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"?
They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire
as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before
offering to meet in person. Several emails and phone conversations
provide an excellent opportunity for both parties to hear
things that they might like or dislike. Also, men should
realize that women do not ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
31 Votes
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Let's meet 3/18/2004
That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone
who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy.
That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing
things. Then the person says " why won't you meet
me in a public place at least" The answer is; if you
cannot engage in several conversations to see if there
are mutual interests, etc., then what is the purpose ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
122 Votes
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Be sensible and you will be safe. 8/17/2003
There is a lot of unnecessary concern over safety on the
net as if its that much different to real life. We take precautions
in reality and we need to take precautions on the net.
If you don't put your details on the net for anyone to
find, you will be able to surf the net without feeling exposed.
There are rules for being safe in real life and they apply
just the same here...you should ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
61 Votes
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