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Hell hath no furylike a man scorned ! 6/19/2006
I am speechless but since "MM: Male Motives (good
handle )and his web site named " Cracked Rabbit"
should have been a warning! I have just read his SCORCHING
"bogus" website under my name ...I could sue
him for deformation of charactr, slander and WORSE hacking
my PC ..and my business website in order to try to ruin my
business/
I have had HOURS of chat with MM and ALL documented if ...
0 Comments, 216 Views,
54 Votes
,7.75 Score
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date from hell #2 6/19/2006
i had a similar exprience like date from hell.i laughed
at his experience but not for long because i realized it's
probably as embarrassing for a male as it is for a female
and they were in a restaurant, no less.my date was at a mall
& started out in fine form but turned ugly when he aske
me to go to his place & I asaid it ws to soon.he whippd
out a nude photo to advertice his appeal &i ran ...
0 Comments, 301 Views,
20 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Let's Have Some Manners! 6/19/2006
I think we all need to treat those interested in us, whether
online or in person, with at least some human dignity. This
means acknowledging the mail we receive unless it is vulgar
or abusive, finishing a date with the frog who was supposed
to be a prince, unless he creeps us out, and being at least
polite and tactful at all times.
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If someone online isn't our cup of tea, a ...
0 Comments, 132 Views,
26 Votes
,5.18 Score
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Just be Honest!!! but Tactful!! 6/19/2006
If after chatting/meeting someone who may be more interested
in you, than you are in them, just say so.
You don't have to be blatantly blunt by saying "I
think you are a creep", Or "You are really "f'uglier"
than the pic you displayed.
A kind word, "it was really nice to meet you",
"glad you took the time to arrange this meeting",
"however, after weighing all the facts I don't ...
0 Comments, 130 Views,
22 Votes
,5.89 Score
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Reply to "rude response" 6/19/2006
Following SFF advise to write the article first using a
text editor and its spellcheck would help everyone to avoid
spelling errors.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
40 Votes
,2.68 Score
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I said," No Thanks," Lately... 6/19/2006
It was to by soon to be ex to her question, "Maybe, someday
we'll re-marry."
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NO THANKS.
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That was good practice and it felt good.
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I received a drunken phone call at 3a.m. from a lady I donated
a generous ear to in a bar (ok, I'm learning about all
this as I go) and I said, "NO THANKS."
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I prefer to be straight from the ...
1 Comments, 145 Views,
22 Votes
,3.01 Score
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The Anticlimatic Meeting 6/19/2006
Sometimes after talking on the phone, sending letters,
pictures and such just not take the place of the first meeting.
I had long learned to keep one's heart out of it until
that first meeting.
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Last weekend was one of those. This older gentleman came
to visit for the weekend; we had wonderful conversations,
great dinners sightseeing all over the city and NO chemistry!
We ...
2 Comments, 169 Views,
30 Votes
,5.69 Score
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ARE WE REALLY LOOKING FOR FRIENDS 6/19/2006
So many people come into SFF or any other "Friends
Site". All profess to be lonely and wanting someone
to "love" or "befriend" or "just
someone to talk to".
So then why so many declines? Does someone have to be slim
and beautiful, rich & famous, own a boat, or fly around
the world, or promise a roll in the sack? Otherwise they
are declined? What does it take to be an accepted friend ...
2 Comments, 76 Views,
75 Votes
,8.26 Score
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Every One Who Writes Me Deserves My Respect 6/19/2006
I try not to leave anyone feeling "down" just
because we are not a fit. We all are searching for companionship,
with such hope and humility. It has been a sweet venture
for me, for many of you have written complimentary remarks,
that I try to return the favor. Let's all put back into
society good wishes and warmth for having sojourned here.
1 Comments, 131 Views,
17 Votes
,5.67 Score
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Oh My Gosh! 6/19/2006
Don't give up on one who has no manors or know how to spark
a relationship, God put everyone here on this big blue planet,
there is always one who is seeking you, even if you gave up
on the first try!
1 Comments, 64 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score
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Rejection 6/19/2006
What is it about rejection people take so personally?
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Why did the ex take it so bad that I rejected her offer of X-Mas
Eve intimacy?
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Because I reject, or am rejected, is not a personal judgement...at
least I don't perceive it that way. It simply means
I am not interested in that level of involve at that time
with that person.
<br> ...
2 Comments, 158 Views,
24 Votes
,1.31 Score
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WHAT IS REALLY RUDE ??? 6/19/2006
SINCE BEING HERE ( ONLY A FEW WEEKS )
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I HAVE ENCOUNTERED SOME REALLY RUDE WOMEN !!
CAN'T SPEAK ABOUT THE MEN AS I AM A MAN AND DONT
CONTACT MEN...LOL
AT FIRST I THOUGHT...WELL MAYBE THEY JUST DON'T KNOW
THAT A RESPONSE OR REPLY ( EITHER WAY )IS APPROPRIATE...AS
IT TURNS OUT HOWEVER THAT IS NOT THE CASE...
NOW...BEFORE THE WOMEN GET RILED UP...UNDERSTAND WHAT
I'M SAYING ...
4 Comments, 332 Views,
41 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Response to saying No! 6/19/2006
If your spouse is dying and the laws of the marrage are holding
you back from cheating, what happens when the spouse that
is dying gives you permision to start a relationship?
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His this cheating?
1 Comments, 120 Views,
14 Votes
,0.26 Score
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you can always block them 6/19/2006
No one likes rejection. Least of all a man. We have this wonderful
image of ourselves. I look in the mirror when I'm shaving
and see someone totally different in a photograph.
If someone gets in touch who is nothing like the person you
are seeking. Then I see nothing wrong in telling them so.
Why string anyone along?
So, he or she fits the bill. Away you go for your first meeting.
A meal ...
1 Comments, 189 Views,
24 Votes
,6.08 Score
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Many Ways to say "No Thanks" 6/19/2006
- You just walk out the door,
- make a big scene in a restaurant,
- never call again (changing number is a plus!)
- tell them all of their faults,
- claim a mental breakdown,
- tell them _____________ insisted you break up (your spouse,
, therapist, sponsor, grocery clerk, rottweiler...)
- have your girlfriend call and say you went to a Buddhist
temple
- send a happy-happy St. ...
0 Comments, 196 Views,
30 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Good Old-Fashioned Courtesy 6/19/2006
I'm fairly new to the Internet "meeting scene"
and the first thing I noticed was the discourtesy of someone
not replying to a note that's been sent. I've had
some wonderful encounters. Don't get me wrong. But
I can't help but ask what would it "cost"
to be courteous. After all, are we not all here on the same
journey, trying to reach the same goal .. to find someone
to share life with? ...
2 Comments, 223 Views,
25 Votes
,7.11 Score
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What is the best way women want to hear No Thank You? 6/19/2006
Men can answer also, but of course I am interested in what
is the least problem for a woman to hear.
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As for me I enjoy the first instant you feel it is a no go, that
you say we just are not an item or a click or what ever and we
have no need to move on.
7 Comments, 350 Views,
20 Votes
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to sex without condoms 6/19/2006
No, I am not cutting and pasting.
This is a personal account of recent dating.
Oo la la. He is handsome. He kept asking me out. He seemed
to pester me. I couldn't shake him so I told him that
I didn't want to be bothered and wish that he would not
stop me to talk anymore. As I left, he said "I am not
a stalker."
One day he found me in a good mood. It was my birthday. He ...
0 Comments, 92 Views,
172 Votes
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How to say no 6/19/2006
What is the most tactful way for a male to tell a lady he isn't
interested in her without hurting her feelings? Is it better
to act somewhat interested and then drag things out and
hope she reads between the lines or should one say it's
obvious that the two of us don't click?
3 Comments, 356 Views,
24 Votes
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Give my regards the hard way! 6/19/2006
Hey, I don't know about you, but I have trouble coming
up with "no thank you" lines when the person
is down right rude or weird. "No thanks, I'm not
interested, and neither is my room mate" or "No
thanks, I've already had my toes sucked today"
or (My particular favorite) "No thanks, I don't
share my undies with anyone"
I have read and reread my profile, and don't see where
it invites ...
4 Comments, 215 Views,
41 Votes
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THE FIRST STEP... 6/19/2006
It takes great courage in a lot of cases for people to take
the first step in showing/alerting someone your interested
in them.. it cost nothing to be polite and say... thanks
but no thanks ...it could have taken them weeks to ask you
in the first place.. with others you can see more or less
if their playing games and answer accordingly.... kels
3 Comments, 230 Views,
26 Votes
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respones to your no thanks 6/19/2006
not only women do that but so do a lot of men.
it doesnt cost any one to be polite.
easygoing595
0 Comments, 102 Views,
16 Votes
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Response to;- Married Unfortunetly 6/19/2006
I wish there was a way I could understand how a marriage of
two people can be held together when love doesn't exist
anymore. I wish I could understand how anyone could place
a higher value over monetary benefits than having and knowing
a true inner happiness. I wish I could understand how a married
man could turn a cheek to the hurt he can cause so many people
when he seeks and gets ...
6 Comments, 278 Views,
59 Votes
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Response to:- "Love" 6/19/2006
If I were a man delivering pizzas and a woman said this to
me I'm sure I'd say no thanks give me the ten bucks
and I'll be out of there. I once did an estimate for a
contract for work around a house. The wife answered the
door in her robe and flashed me as her husband stood behind
her. I said no thanks and left. Is it true some woman fall
in love quickly or might some have an alternative ...
4 Comments, 191 Views,
27 Votes
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so easy to say **no thanks** 6/15/2006
When asked..no thanks is an easy way to get out of a jam.Sometimes
that is all it takes to get out of a relationship also. This
must be done at the very beginning if you feel you dont really
need the hassle of all the questions and the secrets that
seem to appear.Enter into this type of life can only be a
downfall if all the truth is not brought out in the open.
Past history is not needed, ...
3 Comments, 153 Views,
21 Votes
,4.12 Score
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Drinking 6/15/2006
After 25 years of marriage. My wife at that time had decided
that I was running around. So she left for a week to visit
her dad, on xmas day (1984)This was the third time. So, being
who I am, I divorced her. I was a general contractor and did
NOT have a fling/girl friend. Was out making money to pay
for daily life.
Started to drink in February of that year.Never drank before
that.
Met ...
1 Comments, 335 Views,
30 Votes
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Some call me a HELL CAT.. But me, I call it God's work... 6/14/2006
Seems approiate this go here, as so many people seem to have
great issues with those with redhair..or perhaps it's
just me..LOL..yea, It's just me, Sassy lil me...But
my spirit is mine and ya'll can't take that from
me... Neither can you have my Southern charm...LOL...
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Some say I’m mean... Some say I’m a hell cat. Trying to determine
exactly when this all ...
10 Comments, 473 Views,
49 Votes
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Do you ever wonder 5/31/2006
do men say"no thanks" do men even know how to
say "no". do men ever turn down the offer of going
out with a nice looking lady, do they KNOW how to say "NO"
4 Comments, 219 Views,
18 Votes
,5.72 Score
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50 / 50 spread 5/31/2006
either way 50/50 spread
takes place outside Day’s Inn
G : has just parked his truck , is about to register
he : approaches G
she : follows he
he : can you loan us twenty
G : why?
she : we need to put a deposit on gasoline to get back home
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G : deposit ? gasoline ?
she : we ran out of money , ran out of gas ,
can’t make it ...
2 Comments, 162 Views,
15 Votes
,3.74 Score
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Oh My Gosh 5/7/2006
I had a lovely meal with a gentleman, at the local fish restaurant.
One of the problems we encountered was that he had absolutely
nothing to say. I dealt with the problem, by initiating
conversation whenever I could. I chattered on about this
and that, trying to help him relax. Throughout the meal,
I was not very happy with his table manners or should I say,
lack of them, as he used his ...
3 Comments, 314 Views,
71 Votes
,5.64 Score
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