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starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
Committment and Rational Hesitation - 2/8/2010

I found this on a Starbuck's Coffee Cup and saved it.

The Irony of Commitment is that it is deeply liberating - in work, in play, in love. The act frees you from your internal critic, from the fear that likes to dress itself up and parade around as rational hesitiation. To commit is to remove your head as the barrier to your life.

Anne Morriss Starbuck Customer ...

7 response(s), 6 votes
saucypeaches5 52 F
1  question
so they call sarah dumb... - 2/8/2010

The leftists love to denigrate sarah palin and tell everyone how dumb she is... hmmm Barack obama mispronounced corpsman several times during one of his speeches... maybe his teleprompter should be written in phonics

28 response(s), 27 votes
gauch652 86 M
100  questions
That Damn "BUSH" ... - 2/7/2010

That damn Bush really pisses me off . He left us wih a 600+Billion Dollar deficit. Our illustrious Borax could ONLY double that deficit in less than his first year ...

Do you realize if that Damn Bush with very little effort led us into a lesser deficit, Mr .Borax could have "Quadrupled " the deficit left by "W" with the Same amout of Mr. Borax's deficit spending .. Any thoughts on this ...

15 response(s), 19 votes
JoJo1100 65 F
2  questions
Sociological and economical changes since the 1900s - 2/6/2010

It was late evening when a few of us were getting on the elevators after an eleven hour day. A co-worker said, "I wish I didn't have to walk to the parking lot. I wish the elevator could just "warp" me home." Being in a very thoughtful mood, I said, "Oh that does sound good; however, I think that our forefathers in the 1900s would think that we had it pretty easy." Another co-worker chirped ...

7 response(s), 3 votes
c3c5
63  questions
Speaking of the Weather Channel: John Colman Weather Channel Founder Says; - 2/6/2010

Speaking of the Weather Channel: John Colman Weather Channel Founder Says;

Search [john coleman global warming]

For his hour long news special Global Warming ‒ The Other Side

And

Las Vegas Review Journal Article. This, Dec 21 2009:

Search ["Cooling is 'not evidence that global warming is slowing'"]

Then

From Walter Williams: ...

10 response(s), 1 vote
Kassr
228  questions
SICKO: Have you seen this? - 2/3/2010

There is a 2007 documentary directed by Michael Moore that titled "SICKO" and it is an eye opening look at health care in the USA.

What is exposed in the film are facts about the USA health care system, easily verified as being true. It is now on DVD available at Netflex, Block Buster and most any other place that rents or sells DVD.

This is not a gruesome, blood & guts film, ...

13 response(s), 17 votes
avefenix510 75 M
14  questions
My first Time here,my fisrt post........ - 2/3/2010

Hi, I'm Luis, i come from a tiny island in the Caribean, Puerto Rico, "The Island of Enchantment". I've been here in Cleveland for 8 years and a consider Cleveland as my second home....I've been in SSF since 2006, but mostly was in the chatrooms..From now on i'll be posting in my Blog and the magazine. Hope i can make many friends here in SSF, and meet as many as i ...

22 response(s), 5 votes
bigblock 77 M
251  questions
cabin fever - 2/2/2010

boy oh boy do i ever have a case of cabin fever. this has been a nastier winter than we have had for a few years. i guess the milder ones spoiled me for this one has been hard on this old guy. we have snow on the ground for two months now and we seem to get a fresh cover every week. its also been colder than normal this winter. i am so ready for spring and warmer weather. in fact we are going to ...

5 response(s), 3 votes
starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
The Inquisition in Haiti????? - 2/2/2010

Ten Americans from a Baptist Religious Group were arrested for Trafficking.

There are accusations that they were attempting to remove these out of Haiti for adoption into CHRISTIAN families despite the fact that they had living parents.



"There are many who come here with religious ideas that belong more in the time of the inquisition, " said Max Beauvoir, ...


2 response(s), 5 votes
bigblock 77 M
251  questions
unsustainable spending - 2/1/2010

as most of you have read by now, the president has sent his budget to congress. its $3.8 trillion dollars($3, 800, 000, 000, 000.00)of which over half will be added to the debt. i put the numbers in just to show you how much it looks like.

the interest on our debt right now is over 26 billion dollars, PER MONTH. the other thing is that not only this year will they add over a trillion ...

3 response(s), 13 votes
starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
Alternative Livestyles - How Different are we? Really? - 1/29/2010

Belle wrote about making profile on the alternative site... Just to see how the other side lived.

So how many folks have checked out alternative places out of curiosity if not anything else.

Do you know people who are are into "The Lifestyle" or BDSM Scene?

I remember when Mr. Joe and I went to a Swinger's Greet and Meet. I loved the idea of being able to dance and ...

8 response(s), 5 votes
starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
The Message Falls Where It Needs To - 1/28/2010

Mrs. Joe talked about feeling duped for reaching out to someone that didn't appear to be who she was. It has been my experience that sometimes the "message" falls someplace else and does good regardless.

Years ago when I was in Beauty College, one of the students tried to reach out to another student who appeared to have problems with alcoholism. My girlfriend overheard. She decided ...

6 response(s), 8 votes
dome53 72 M
379  questions
"DANG IT VIENNAS AGAIN" - 1/27/2010

I went to a cafe last nite. Sure did. It said home cookin.Well about all I get to is del.pizza, van camps, viennas, and every now and then good ol potted meat. Well after eatin that crap, I asked the cook if he cooked like that at home. U know he got awful p'd off.I mean it tasted like a, never mind cant say it here. I had to end up payin for that crap, and went home and cooked me somebeans and ...

4 response(s), 2 votes
bigblock 77 M
251  questions
state of the union speech - 1/27/2010

facing a divided congress and a dissatisfied nation, the president is to make his annual state of the union address to a joint session of congress and the american people.

what would you like to hear from mr obama? i would like to hear him be fiscally responsible by reducing the deficit and taking on the national debt, also realize that the country is in a war against radicals who are ...

2 response(s), 14 votes
dinty3 79 M
116  questions
Why can't the average person get medical care as fast as jocks, stars and dogs - 1/26/2010

I just had a knee repair and it took the best part of a year to get to the repair part. It did not have to take that long if I wanted to bump, jump, or pay for quick service. Yet sports figures and VIPs go to the head of the line.

mrsdinty and I took our new chihuahua pup to see the Vet, as she seemed to be having a problem with walking, stretching and sometimes being picked up. She had ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
Canada or USA - 1/26/2010

Who will take in more Haitians

2 response(s), 2 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
Health Care - 1/26/2010

Where is the USA headed

0 response(s), 0 votes
starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
Utilizing the Resources In Your Medicine Wheel - 1/26/2010

The Medicine Wheel is a Native Term of the Community surrounding your abode.

I am amazed working in Produce at distances that these products come from. There are Cherries from Chili, Pineapples from Honduras, Garlic from China, Strawberries from California, Grapefruits from Texas, Oranges from South Africa, Kiwi from Italy, Ad Infinitum.

I noted that the Cinnamon is from ...

0 response(s), 5 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
Tiger Woods - 1/25/2010

Is he headed out of golf, will he be able to handle the heckling?

0 response(s), 0 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
Marriage - 1/25/2010

Seems to be a thing of the past

1 response(s), 2 votes
starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
Physical Versus Emotional Trauma - 1/23/2010

When a person has physical injuries - it's very obvious and that person will have all the support in the world even if that person is being a pain in the sciatic nerve.

However, if the person experiences a emotional injury - it is not as obvious - the injured person's behavior might not be understood. Thus the person is treated like a moral issue or even ostracize.

There are ...

1 response(s), 4 votes
starwomyn 70 F
376  questions
Addicted to the Virtual World - 1/23/2010

I was watching a show on Dr. Phil about a woman who was addicted to FarmVille to the point where her were eating cereal for dinner.

Dr. Phil advised her to shut down the farm, go on a date or join a gym.

I decided to take his advise and join a gym.

Last Year, I was dying of broken heart, the year before and the year before that I was also dying of a broken heart. ...

0 response(s), 3 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
Intimate Partner - 1/23/2010

What does it really say

0 response(s), 0 votes
ClassA 83 F
204  questions
The Coffee Can - 1/21/2010



I recently emptied a coffee can, made a poster on PowerPoint and placed in my local supermarket. I asked for donations for the residents in California experiencing mud slides because of the abundance of rain lately and former firers. Also for the cold/storm in the south which will put high cost to our fruits/veggies this coming summer. Addition the bitter cold the midwest ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
ClassA 83 F
204  questions
Hey Hey Mrs. Robinson - 1/21/2010





It seems the first lady of Ireland has turned the tables. She can't keep "it" in her lacey panties and playing cougar with a in Ireland. Move over, John Edwards, Stanford, and Switzer, Mrs. Robinson is taking over lol. Her husband (prime minister of Ireland) discovered because she brought her lover a house and paid his tuition. The prime ...

1 response(s), 3 votes
karinpepita 109 F
62  questions
You can fool somepeople some of the time, but you cant fool all people all of the time. - 1/20/2010

When we meet people here in cyber space, it can be a Little difficult to be able to detect what is real, and what is BS....Then after a while one is able to recognize the pattern in the writing, punctuation and in my case bad English and bad spelling. But what I am referring is to what you want to share of yourself, since this is purely voluntary, one would think that mature people would not ...

0 response(s), 2 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
The Tab - 1/20/2010

Who should pick up on first date..or do you go dutch

0 response(s), 0 votes
genie1moose 77 F
56  questions
Have you found that, as you age, you are more accepting of your life? - 1/19/2010

I am finding that, as I age, I am learning greater acceptance, acceptance of the fact that I am getting older and that aging is an inevitable part of life, like it or not.

At this point in my life, I live one day at a time and sometimes one hour at a time. I don't worry about tomorrow or yesterday, and I have learned to accept both the positive and negative aspects of life. I find that ...

8 response(s), 17 votes
luvtotalk2 76 M
10  questions
Be honest - 1/18/2010

Do women like men to be aggressive about meeting for the first date

5 response(s), 5 votes
dinty3 79 M
116  questions
One more dome(er) and a 911 call joke ok? - 1/18/2010

Mrsjoe is right, too much time on my hands. Joke first: Two hunters are out in the woods when one of them collapses. He doesn't seem to be breathing and his eyes are gazed. The other guy whips out his cell phone and calls 911. He gasps, "My friend is dead! What should I do?". The operator says "Calm down. I can help. First let's make sure he's dead." There is a silence, than a shot is heard. Back ...

4 response(s), 7 votes