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"We are happy and gay......" - 8/18/2015 Maybe I am old fashioned, but does anyone else find it hard to accept the hijacking of the word "gay" over the last decade or so? It was a short little adjective in the English language meaning "happy and full of fun". Because it is a short word conjuring up an impression of happiness, smiling faces and positivity, it was cleverly taken up by the homosexual community and used as a word ... 4 response(s), 3 votes |
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Do you get Hot listed by young ones? - 8/13/2015 This is SENIOR Friend Finder and I suppose we all get placed on someone's Hot List from time to time. I guess that is supposed to indicate that the person has some interest in us.. It would be natural to assume that the person concerned would read our profile before taking this step and only be interested in Hot listing someone of around the same age. NOT SO... Looking through the list of those ... 9 response(s), 5 votes |
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Does SFF have a future? - 7/25/2015 Having returned to this site after a long break I have noticed some changes. The Advice Lines seem to have fallen out of use in the last few years with Blogs taking over. Unfortunately it appears that some of the personal abuse is continuing in the latter forum. Whilst membership numbers appear stable it seems to me that active members both paying and non-paying have reduced ... 9 response(s), 4 votes |
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Getting spam mail on SFF is it the norm now? - 7/21/2015 It seems like for the last number of days I am hearing from men supposedly where it says they are from of which I doubt. The messages are poorly constructed and none of it makes sense. Why is it that we have to put up with this? Sometimes they get suspended before I ever read them as they no doubt gave out email addresses and cell numbers. I immediately delete them. ... 7 response(s), 3 votes |
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Have you ever met someone from SFF,close to your home ?? - 4/9/2015 Hi, i'm Luis and i come from Puerto Rico.Living here in Cleveland, for 13 years. I came to this website in 2006. Since then, i haven't met anyone from this site, even if i visite the chatrooms, the blogs or the magazine. .They often send me pics.of people that are "suppostedly my "Cupid Matches", many of them from my city or nearby places. Sometimes ... 10 response(s), 2 votes |
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Freud = Fraud? - 2/23/2015 Did anybody read and take seriously Freud's ground-breaking stuff (a Century ago) on human development? The 'Electra Complex' and the male version, I forget what it was called. I did eventually and as much as I was highly critical (his techniques of eliciting research did get a bad press), I still contrast experiences with the oppo sex in real life, with some of it in mind. Some quite ... 5 response(s), 2 votes |
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Need some photo advice - 10/22/2014 Need some photo advice 1 response(s), 3 votes |
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Does the plumbing still work? - 6/2/2014 I am 71 years old. It has been a number of years since I have had an intimate relationship with a lady. Should I find a lady that wishes to enter into a serious relationship at some point in time there will be intimacy. At some point I think I should tell her that I'm not sure if the plumbing still will work. Is there a proper place, time and way to impart this information? 2 response(s), 5 votes |
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Sensual Gratification Among the Senior Folks - 5/11/2014 curiousinaz brought up the subject of older women closing up shop. How about the subject of MEN closing up shop. I was have coffee with a Lesbian Friend and we got on the subject of Sex. I was describing aspects of Whoopee among the Geriatric Crowd. Her reaction was "Bleek! Ewwwwwwww! I am sure glad I don't have to do THAT!!!!!! There is an old joke about an ... 6 response(s), 10 votes |
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In your mind, where is this porch located? - 4/2/2014 I have no real idea where SFF porch is located, so I went were it all started, in Boca Raton Florida. Picked out 3614 South Ocean Blvd, because it looks like it has enough rooms to accommodate quite a few people. The porch (Lanai in this case because it is a regal home) I think is a rather large, Palm Thatch covered roof for shade. Sunny with a comfortable warm breeze blowing. ... 3 response(s), 4 votes |
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I think I need a time out, how about you? - 3/28/2014 It would appear that blog land has become a little volatile and a spark could blow things up and things will be said that can't be taken back. Call me chicken if you like but I don't know enough of what is really going on to take sides. It may take several weeks, even months before information is available to make any sense of the problem. Until then I will keep an open mind and a closed ... 3 response(s), 6 votes |
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Is the new format on SFF a good thing? - 2/21/2014 On the blog page I seem to have a problem finding the new blogs. All I see are a mix of old blogs WTH is going on:... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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What's wrong with universal health care? - 2/11/2014 I don't understand the opposition to universal coverage regardless of ability to pay. The US has more people enrolled in single payor, government administered health care than the entire populations of Canada or Australia. If government medicine in good enough for seniors and veterans, why is it bad for everyone else? 2 response(s), 6 votes |
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Why are Americans so divided? - 2/10/2014 The discord between Americans of different outlooks is very apparent. I don't see the same division in other national groups. Anyone have an insight as to why this is so? 2 response(s), 5 votes |
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Mother knows best! - 2/10/2014 John invited his mother over for dinner. During the course of the meal, his mother couldn't help but noticing how beautiful John's room-mate was. She had long been suspicious of a relationship between John and his room-mate, and this had only made her more curious. Over the course of the evening, while watching the two interact, she started to wonder if there was more between John and ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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More Questions - 12/30/2013 IF MAN EVOLVED FROM MONKEYS AND APES, WHY DO WE STILL HAVE MONKEYS AND APES? THE MAIN REASON THAT SANTA IS SO JOLLY IS BECAUSE HE KNOWS WHERE ALL THE BAD GIRLS LIVE. >> I WENT TO A BOOKSTORE AND ASKED THE SALESWOMAN, "WHERE'S THE SELF- HELP SECTION?" SHE SAID IF SHE TOLD ME, IT WOULD DEFEAT THE PURPOSE. >> WHAT IF THERE WERE NO HYPOTHETICAL QUESTIONS? 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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Question Four - 12/15/2013 WHY DO THEY PUT BRAILLE ON THE DRIVE-THROUGH BANK MACHINES? 2 response(s), 1 vote |
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Question Three - 12/12/2013 IF A DEAF SIGNS SWEAR WORDS, DOES HIS MOTHER WASH HIS HANDS WITH SOAP? 2 response(s), 1 vote |
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Question two - 12/9/2013 DO INFANTS ENJOY INFANCY AS MUCH AS ADULTS ENJOY ADULTERY? 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Question - 12/8/2013 WHY DO SHOPS HAVE SIGNS, 'GUIDE DOGS ONLY', THE DOGS CAN'T READ AND THEIR OWNERS ARE BLIND? 2 response(s), 1 vote |
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Question - 12/8/2013 WHY DO SHOPS HAVE SIGNS, 'GUIDE DOGS ONLY', THE DOGS CAN'T READ AND THEIR OWNERS ARE BLIND? 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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Blood Transfusion Alert - 12/5/2013 This was approved and authorized by the Northwest Arkansas Medical society! MEDICAL UPDATE Remember this the next time you have major surgery and need a blood transfusion! This is good to know. MEDICAL ALERT Australian Medical Association researchers have found that patients needing blood transfusions may benefit from receiving chicken blood rather than human blood. ... 0 response(s), 4 votes |
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New Saying - 12/2/2013 Give a Man a Fish and He eats for a day Teach a man to fish and he will sit in the boat and drink Beer all day 0 response(s), 1 vote |
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The less Generation - 11/25/2013 This pretty well sums it up!!! WELCOME TO THE 21ST CENTURY!!! *Our Phones ~ Wireless *Cooking ~ Fireless *Cars ~ Keyless *Food ~ Fatless *Tires ~ Tubeless *Dress ~ Sleeveless *Youth ~ Jobless *Leaders ~ Shameless *Relationships ~ Meaningless *Attitude ~ Careless *Wives ~ Fearless *Babies ~ Fatherless *Feelings ~ Heartless *Education ~ Valueless * ~ Mannerless Everything is ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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Christmas Card for everyone - 11/20/2013 MERRY CHRISTMAS YOUR FIRST CHRISTMAS CARD Cleverly done!!! Twas two months before Christmas When all through our land, Not a Christian was praying Nor taking a stand. Why the PC Police had taken away The reason for Christmas - no one could say. The were told by ... 0 response(s), 5 votes |
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Perhaps we can save the porch after all. - 11/13/2013 I sent a personal invite to Alfie(hawkslayer) to start some of his stories over on the Magazine page. I don't know for sure but I think we can breathe some new life into the Porch. Alfie has s told me he will check it out and be there in a couple of days. Sure hope to see some old friends there. 3 response(s), 1 vote |
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Complicated Relationships - 7/7/2013 I returned to West Virginia a little over two years ago because my ex-husband was very sick. I opted to take care of him. Despite the divorce we were very bonded. Both of us attempted to move on and entered "Stupid Relationships" that didn't work out. I moved back into the house and put dating on the back burner. It's difficult to explain why my ex-hubby and I were sharing a ... 2 response(s), 7 votes |
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When Should We Start Acting Our Age? - 4/14/2013 Last week, my , his girlfriend and I went to Six Flags Over Georgia. I haven't been to an Amusement Park in years. I go to the local State Fair for the Concerts versus the Rides figuring my Roller Coaster Days are over. Big Surprise!!!! One of the first rides we looked at was called Acrophobia. Sixteen Stories Up, Spin, Spin, Spin and Down very fast. My 's girlfriend ... 4 response(s), 6 votes |
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ONE OF MY LEAST HAPPY THINGS TO DO - 4/14/2013 I really hate, hate, going to any Bridal Showers, Baby showers, Tupperware and any or kind of get together with little games and prices etc. I have found more excuses why I could not attend, from having to be out of town, other engagements, down to right out lie about one of my having a contagious illness... Soooo yesterday, I had to go to a Baby Shower, yes indeed, I did go to my ... 2 response(s), 3 votes |
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The Big Peach and Culture Shock - 4/8/2013 I am currently visiting my in Atlanta. We moved to West Virginia from Ojai, California in 1999 and bought a house. There is a Redneck Culture in West Virginia but I was able to find the Alternative Communities on the outskirts. I've learned to deal with the Snow and find this part of West Virginia doable. The Big Peach is often called the New York of the South. There are ... 1 response(s), 2 votes |
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